Do you sometimes feel pressured to win at all costs, even if it means putting your growth or your horse’s development on the back burner?  

Winning every time isn’t sustainable—but focusing on growth is. The key to true success in your riding journey is adopting a growth mindset where improvement takes center stage, and the ribbons follow naturally. 

This week, we’re diving into 4 strategies to help you avoid “Winning Fever” and prioritize your long-term progress—because the real victory lies in who you and your horse become along the way.

4 Strategies to Stay Growth-Focused (and Avoid Winning Fever)

 Set Your Own Benchmarks
Not every ride needs to result in a ribbon. Instead, create personal goals that matter to you.

 Maybe it’s improving your dressage score.

 Maybe it’s mastering a challenging course.

 Or maybe it’s simply maintaining better control and connection with your horse.

When your goals align with your vision, every ride becomes meaningful—regardless of the results.

 Celebrate Progress Over Podium Finishes
It’s easy to measure success by ribbons, but growth as a rider often shows up in subtler ways.
 Ask yourself after each ride:

• Did I feel more connected to my horse today?
• Did I tackle a skill I’ve been working on?
• Did I ride with more confidence and focus?

Even small signs of improvement are worth celebrating!

 Surround Yourself with Growth-Oriented Riders
The people around you can influence your mindset—so choose wisely! 
 Spend time with riders who value improvement over immediate wins. A growth-oriented circle will help you stay focused on your journey without getting distracted by external pressures.

 Take a Long-Term Perspective
Ask yourself: Would you rather win today or grow into the rider who wins consistently over time?

 A quick win feels great in the moment, but it might hold you back from bigger opportunities down the line.

 Keep your eyes on the bigger picture and remember that small, intentional steps now can lead to massive growth in the future.

 Want to dive deeper?
Listen to the full podcast episode, “Why Chasing Wins Hinders Your Progress,” for more tips and insights.

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 Mindset Check-In

• Are you riding to be the best today—or to get better in the long run?
• Have you ever felt external pressure (from friends, competitors, or social media) to prioritize winning over progress?

Winning is a byproduct of growth. When you focus on improving your skills, mindset, and connection with your horse, the wins will come naturally—and you’ll enjoy the journey so much more.

Here’s to staying focused on what matters most—your growth as a rider and your partnership with your horse.